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Horny Horror and Freaky Fornication

Horny Horror and Freaky Fornication

October 5, 2021

It’s true! Wonderfully Done is back again for a fresh season of horny and wholesome content! We couldn't miss the opportunity to kick things off with a spooky themed episode. 🎃🖤 Is it a trick or a treat, though? You’ll have to be the judge! 

 

Topics we explore in this episode:

    • What makes Halloween sexy? Why are us queers super into it?
    • Our Horny Horror Movie recommendations
    • Costumes: Strategically hot? Occasionally terrible?
  • Robust discussions on the fuckability of some classic MONSTERS
    Our selections include:
    • Swamp monsters
    • Ghosts
    • Vampires
    • Mothman
    • Werewolves
    • Witches/Warlocks
    • Frankenstein / Zombies
    • Shapeshifters
    • Goo creatures 
    • Tentacle monsters

Our Horny Horror Movie List:

  • Jennifer's Body
  • Ginger Snaps
  • The Mummy
  • The Shape of Water
  • The Love Witch
  • Eyes Wide Shut
  • Rocky Horror Picture Show
  • Bride of Chucky
  • Queen of the Damned
  • Dusk till Dawn
  • Interview with the Vampire
  • Bram Stoker's Dracula

What other movies do you love for Halloween? We’d love to know!


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Pegging Pleasure and Finding Confidence

Pegging Pleasure and Finding Confidence

August 18, 2021

The end of Season Two has arrived! ❤️ To you we offer a special Anal August treat, and vulnerable chats about body feels and journeys of personal sexual freedom.

CW: This episode has some heavy exploration of body image issues and fatphobia


Topics we explore in this episode:

  • Broaching the desire for pegging with a cis het male partner
  • Practical advice on developing self esteem & confidence
  • Fat liberation, body neutrality, body acceptance and more
  • The concept of sexual freedom with lashings of practical advice
  • Thoughts and feelings about Season Two and what is to come

 

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

Book Recommendation:
Intuitive Eating - A Revolutionary Anti-Diet Approach

  • Written by Elyse Resch and Evelyn Tribole

Health at Every Size

  • Written by Linda Bacon

Podcast Recommendation:
WHY ARE PEOPLE INTO THAT?!

  • Hosted by Tina Horn
  • A fascinating podcast really getting into the guts of why people are into different kinds of sex, kink and more with interesting and thought provoking guests

 

Thank you so much for an incredible second season, cutie beans! 

 

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Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

Queer Virginity, Talking Boundaries and Desires

June 22, 2021

Hey there, sweet little biscuits! 

 

Lauren and Vix are back with listener questions today as we approach the season finale. Woah! These are some spicy meatballs, full of challenging conversations that we’re sure many Wonderfully Done listeners can relate to.

 

Topics we explore in this episode:

  • Navigating partners hang ups when you’re a young queer ‘virgin’
  • Communicating seeking support re: painful penetration
  • Negotiating rough sex while inexperienced
  • Voicing what you want ‘in the moment’ with partners
  • Questioning boundaries in mixed sexuality relationships 
  • Navigating internalised biphobia

 

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

 

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Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James

Domination, BDSM, and Sex Work with Sir James

June 7, 2021

Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James! 

 

Topics we explore in this episode:

  • Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work
  • Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating
  • Stigma and misconceptions around sex work
  • Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests
  • How to be a fabulous first-time client
  • Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home
  • How to be an active, supportive submissive

 

Who is Sir James?
Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.

 

Where to find more Sir James

Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia

Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/ 

Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com

 

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

  • Resource: Sex Menu

    • An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
    • This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
    • Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
    • Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework
  • Fetish House
    • The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
    • Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
    • We love their extensive Etiquette Guide 
  • Tryst

    • Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more
  • Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish

    • A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM

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Body Acceptance, Sexy Comics and Being Ace with Hien Pham

Body Acceptance, Sexy Comics and Being Ace with Hien Pham

May 18, 2021

Honestly when it’s just me… I really do like my body.” - Hien Pham

 

We’ve had a bunch of messages from Wonderfully Done listeners asking for us to have a lovely ace guest. Well! We recently had the absolute pleasure of interviewing a dear friend of ours, Hien Pham. As well as being a brilliant (and often smutty) artist, Hien is gay, gray-ace and an advocate of body acceptance and sex positivity - everything we love! 

 

Who is Hien Pham?

Hien Pham (he/him) is a digital artist specializing in gentle and optimistic queer comics.

He grew up in Vietnam on war stories before moving and finding a home in Australia. His work revolves around respite, around caring and loving and being loved and cared for.

 

Topics we explore in this episode: 

  • Self-healing through creative expression
  • Fat joy and fighting fatphobia
  • Dating while ace, and dating ace people
  • Being a smut creator while on the ace spectrum
  • What even is ‘masculinity’, anyway?
  • Vulnerability and how audiences can help break shame cycles
  • Sex as character development, and ‘flaws’ as good character design


Where to find more Hien

 

Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:

  • Sex Education: Oh Joy Sex Toy

    • If you haven’t visited them yet - GET OVER THERE!
    • Wonderful sex ed comics from health, to sex and sexuality, to how to guides
    • Sex toy reviews galore
  • Artist: G.C. Houle

  • Comic Maker: Gina Biggs
    • A comic creator of 20+  years with a focus on sci-fi, romance, and fairytales
    • Runs Filthy Figments
      • Described as ‘the internet’s premiere collection of Erotic Comics by an amazing lineup of cartoonists’ 
    • Twitter: https://twitter.com/ginabiggs

  • Comic Artist & Writer: Sarah Winifred Searle

 

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Top, Bottom, Vers - It’s Sexy Glossary Time!

Top, Bottom, Vers - It’s Sexy Glossary Time!

May 5, 2021

With the rise of online dating, words and terms to describe ourselves and our desires are more prevalent than ever. The tricky thing about words is that many (especially in the world of sex and dating!) don’t actually have a singular meaning understood and accepted by all people. So what the heck can we do?

Questions we ask in this episode: 

  • Do we use any slang or language in our own dating profiles?
  • Do we use labels? How do labels help us? How do they limit us?
  • Why does slang and new language emerge around sex and community? Is it just like horoscopes, or what?
  • How do we have conversations asking what terms actually mean for different people?
  • When is it about understanding ourselves, and when is it about explaining ourselves?
  • What should people ‘know’ or learn? When do we ‘need’ to know specifics?

Words and terms we explore:

  • Top
  • Bottom
  • Submissive/Sub
  • Dominant / Dom / Domme
  • Vers / Switch
  • Polyamorous vs. non-monogamy etc
  • Open Relationship vs. Ethical Non-Monogamy
  • Labels like: stud, stem, femme, butch, otter, bear, twink (presentation slang)
  • SW lingo: PSE, GFE, BBJ

 

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My Teacher Fetish and Penis Sex Toys

My Teacher Fetish and Penis Sex Toys

April 8, 2021

A big hey, hi, hello to our favourite sex and love nerds! We have some extra juicy topics for you in this episode, expect lots of ROBUST discussion! 👀💞

The topics we cover in this episode includes:

  • Having a teacher fetish in your early 20’s
    • Power dynamics
    • If you have ‘risky’ fetishes, what are safe but spicy alternatives?
  • Exploring feelings of shame around buying penis-centric sex toys

 

Content mentioned in this episode:

 

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Unicorn Hunting: Am I the baddie? (Babysode)

Unicorn Hunting: Am I the baddie? (Babysode)

March 23, 2021

Saddle up cuties - today we’re talking about Unicorns! 🦄

Babysodes break away from our usual format, and explore something that tickles our fancy - such as an interview, discussing a particular topic of interest, or playing games.

In this episode we discuss:

  • Unicorns - what are they?
  • Unicorn culture - the good, the bad & the ugly
  • Tips for being a good, respectful ‘unicorn hunter’
  • Tips for a safer, better unicorn experience
  • How to be them, and find them!

Content and tools mentioned in this episode:

Book Recommendation:

The Ethical Slut

  • English non-fiction book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
  • This is often suggested as a first read for Polyamory
  • Take with a grain of salt

Dating apps through the lens of seeking threesomes:

Feeld app

  • Used to be called Thrinder
  • Kink and sexual encounter focused
  • You can connect your profile with your partners
  • People are pretty upfront with their specific sexual or kink related desires, which can make screening a little easier!

OkCupid

  • More common to see non-monogamy & queerness explicitly on profiles
  • Robust information on profiles
  • You can connect your profile with your partners

 

Tinder

  • Largest pool of selection, but less clear who is open to different lifestyles or their openness to it
  • Since a recent update, you can connect your profile with your partners

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Sex Toy Joy and Prioritising Pleasure with Nikki Darling

Sex Toy Joy and Prioritising Pleasure with Nikki Darling

March 1, 2021

Hello, sweet angels! Today we’re here with none other than Nikki Darling, Australia's first gender-free sexual health and pleasure purveyors. We LOVE this online adult store, and jumped at the chance to interview the amazing owner - a fellow Lauren!

We’ve been blessed with a cheeky little discount code for our listeners - just enter WonderfullyDone at checkout for 10% off your first Nikki Darling order! 😍

 

Our fabulous conversation includes:

  • Insights into the daily life of running a sexual pleasure and health store
  • Inclusive practice and communication around sex toys
  • Trends in 2020 and predictions for 2021 (aka ‘the TikTok effect’)
  • The challenges of growing a sexual brand in an increasingly sex-negative world
  • Collecting and curating vintage and modern sex toys
  • Recommendations for sexy resources and learning

And so much more!

 

Mentioned in this episode:

Glyde Sheer Latex Dams

FC2 Internal Condoms

 

Carol Queen, Ph D
Louise Bourchier MPH

Tristan Taormino

Cyndi Darnell (The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal)

Betty Dodson

 

Go forth and follow Nikki Darling!

Twitter

Instagram

Website

 

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Valentine’s Day: Trash or Treasure?

Valentine’s Day: Trash or Treasure?

February 7, 2021

The season of LOVE has begun as we march towards February 14th, Valentine's Day! With our deep fascination in all things dating and sex, we’d be remiss if we didn’t share some robust chats about this polarising holiday!

 

Babysodes break away from our usual format, and explore something specific that tickles our fancy - such as an interview, discussing a particular topic of interest, or playing games.

 

In this episode we discuss:

  • A brief history on the origins of Valentine's Day
  • Figuring out how to give good gifts to please your sweetie(s)
  • Navigating one person liking Valentine's while the other hates it
  • Why Valentine's Day shouldn't be the only day you’re extra romantic with partner(s)
  • Creative date ideas to break away from the classic ‘dinner and drinks’ combo
  • Our very own Valentine's Day plans!

 

We’re absolutely big sluts for Valentine’s and would LOVE to hear your thoughts about it! Please especially feel free to share your best Valentine’s OR your plans for this year here

 

Ps. If you have a friend you think might enjoy our show, please share it with them - it would mean a lot to us!

 

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